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Saturday, January 3, 2015

2014 in Review

It’s Christmas time again! Where did the time go? In reflecting back, it seems there were more lowlights than highlights this year.  Myrt, Dan (Steve’s brother) and Molly (our niece) were each called to their final reward over just a couple of months.  We will always thank God for the Little Sisters of the Poor who took wonderful care of Myrt (and us as well). The Malones also owe Fr. Roger Bauman, a huge debt of gratitude as he was nearly on retainer with the family, officiating at wakes and funerals for Dan and Molly and Mara’s (Molly’s baby) baptism. And…oh yeah, both cats survived another year. High or low remains to be determined.  

Kevin’s latest assignment is closer to home. His commute to Chicago may not be much more than Alanna’s travels to various veterinary clinics around the metropolitan area. Alanna, Kevin and family traveled widely this year. As soon as school let out, they took wing for Europe and spent over a week traveling through Rome and Paris. Then, over Thanksgiving, they spent a week at Disney World, where they were hoping to escape the cold. Not sure things worked out quite the way they had hoped. However, a good time was had by all. Finally, Alanna attended a conference for veterinarians in San Diego in December and stayed with Jaime and Lucy. That short stay piqued her interest in returning because she didn’t have time to see much of the neighborhood in her spare time.

Sofia has started competing in Junior Olympic gymnastics with several excellent competitions under her belt.  It’s fun to watch her compete and see the joy on her face when she has had a good performance. She and her mom just returned from Chicago, where they combined a girls’ weekend with another competition. Sofia recently competed in her first State Championship where her team took 5th out of 28. On another front, she is also becoming quite the rock hound.

Ethan is just starting his second basketball season after playing summer soccer and learning how to play flag football. Kevin has been one of his coaches and introduced the first graders to the forward pass. Ethan caught one as a tight end or maybe a flanker. That’s harder than it looks at that age…for player and coach. In addition to team sports, Ethan also took some golf lessons this summer.  He is still into dinosaurs and Pokémon. Not long ago, Ethan challenged Grandpa to a race and won with some ease. If that isn’t humiliating enough, Sofia said she was faster than Ethan and wanted to race. The track was about a fifty yard sprint. Grandpa did pretty good and nearly beat her. She had to ruin it, though, when he pointed out how close it was. She said, “Grandpa, I was just jogging.” It’s a sad day when whippersnappers taunt their elders.

Stephanie and I took Sofia and Ethan for camping, hiking and rock climbing this year at Jay Cooke State Park. If you haven’t been there for a while, those climbing spots that used to be big rocks have become mountains. Stephanie shouted encouragement, as always, when Sofia picked her way along the pinnacle on the highest mountain, while Ethan wanted to prove he was a bighorn on the bound. Luckily, we were rained out of one of our more rugged hikes. Dotage permits apologies to the young with, “Maybe the weather will cooperate next year.” We won over their good graces with pizza in Cloquet and desert at the Dairy Queen. Overall it was a fun camping weekend.

After his deployment aboard the USS Ronald Reagan, where they participated in the RIMPAC international war exercise, Kyle had some time to play in Hawaii. He has since transferred to Jacksonville to scrape some of the rust off of his piloting skills. After this, he will join his new squadron in Japan as Department Head. Jaime, who has been working her own flexible schedule at Scripps Health System, and Lucy will stay in San Diego until Kyle completes his deployment. They will all be moving to their next home in Washington State in the fall. Looking forward to seeing that part of the country for the first time.

Lucy joined the family in February. She got off to a slow and frightening start after being born with sepsis. After three very long days of cooling therapy and another two weeks in the NICU, she finally got to go home, where she has since been thriving and absorbing the fun in life like a sponge. We finally got to meet and hold her in April, as we spent a week over Easter in San Diego with mom, dad and baby. She is as cute as a button. Then in October, Kyle and Jaime tried to arrange Lucy’s baptism on the USS Ronald Reagan. However, the timing did not work out. Instead, she was baptized at the chapel in Coronado with both sets of grandparents, Kelly, Tim and Danielle in attendance. We all had a wonderful time together and it was so much fun to see the little cousins interact with each other and “trade” toys back and forth. Lucy continues to do very well and is meeting all of her milestones. She gets around very well and is starting to stand. Here comes trouble!

Kelly and Tim have finished another year at the weather service and they have much to explain. Our winters seem to be starting earlier and ending later, plus that first snowstorm this year in Tim’s Erie PA hometown stacked up to something like six feet…yes…that was feet. My snow blower would have died of a carburetor attack. They are on the lookout for a new home. It’s hard to imagine how much more space is required by the addition of just one tiny little body!

In February, Danielle became a child of God. We celebrated with her and Kyle earned another call sign…the Godfather! Just a few short weeks ago, Danielle celebrated her first birthday.  It was quite an event where she learned the head first dive, literally, into a birthday or any other kind of cake. Shortly before her birthday, she took her first steps. Like her daddy, she loves music and, like mommy, loves to dance. This looks to be a good combination! She was also thrilled about all the new toys Santa put under the tree for her. In 2015 we get to see how fast Mom(s) and Dad(s) can move to keep up. Parenting is definitely for the young.

As for us, Facetime and/or Skype are among the great inventions of all time, allowing us to view progress as the grandkids in the east and west join more of the fray each day. Steve is finishing another year at Viking and Stephanie is, too, at Medica.  Stephanie and I celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary this year. We also spent the entire week at Chetek this year.  Without Dan and Molly, who were traditionally 25% to 33% of our iron person competition, some of the athletic endeavors, especially the whiffle ball event, suffered mightily.  This year Steve won zero croquet games, not even the preliminaries, and will need to work a little harder next year in spring training. The black bear that has patrolled the perimeter remained hidden this year. He never even came out to inspect the firing range, his main haunt the last couple of years. JC’s and Tom’s fireworks displays were as good as any and better than most as was the food.

At any rate, this has been a challenging year. We thank you all for your love and support as we made our way through the many trials we faced. We hope for a brighter future this year and wish all of you a blessed Christmas and new year filled with peace, health, and happiness.

Friday, August 7, 2009

Wow...I can't believe it's been over a year since I thought to begin this undertaking. Obviously things other than homework and school got in the way of my efforts to maintain this journal. I graduated with my master's degree in Library Science in December. Since then, I've found myself with little to no motivation to do much of anything. Oh well...I am a late starter and I know it. In this case, I haven't even put the key in the ignition.

So...for the time being, seems my two beautiful grandchildren will be sticking around. Guess that's one good thing (for me at least) that came out of this recession. I can't say that disappoints me, but I'm sure it does (really, did) her parents. However, I know in my heart that when the opportunity presents itself for them to move on to a place warmer than the Miniapple, they will leave in that same heart beat. Therefore, I must make the most of my time with them.

We will celebrate Sofia's 3rd birthday soon. She has become very chatty and seems to have inherited the same drama queen genes displayed prominently by her Auntie Kelly:-)! She gets along better with her little brother but still needs to take possession of whatever he holds in his hands. Of course, it's all good cuz she now says please before she grabs! She has been in her beautiful princess phase for some time now...her favorite appears to be Sleeping Beauty, although she is not one herself to enjoy the sleeping part! She is very close to being potty trained, so her parents need no longer fear that she will start kindergarten in diapers. Me...I'm still pulling for a little ballerina, but time will tell.

Ethan, who just turned 1 on May 1st, is the spitting image of his gramps at the same age. Like his sister, he chatters endlessly as well, but I haven't learned his language yet. Maybe he's speaking Sandra's language! He's been walking for the past couple of months now and gets better every day. He is also learning to challenge his big sister, even when she says please...Took long enough. He certainly has a set of lungs on him when he chooses to exercise them. However, he is a very happy little boy and you can just about always coax a big grin and a hug out of him with very little effort.

Sunday, June 22, 2008

The beginning

Since all of my children will soon live at least 1000 miles away, this seems like a way to keep in touch. Unfortunately, I fear my ability to post will be severely limited by homework until December (I am counting the days by the way!) However, this (and pretty much anything else seemed like much more fun than writing a literature review. More to come...